{"id":1421,"date":"2010-09-02T10:20:29","date_gmt":"2010-09-02T10:20:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/wordpress\/?p=1421"},"modified":"2011-10-29T13:36:15","modified_gmt":"2011-10-29T18:36:15","slug":"fiction_the_tim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/archives\/2010\/09\/fiction_the_tim.html","title":{"rendered":"Fiction: The Time Traveler&#8217;s Wife, by Audrey Niffenegger"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Re-read for me; new to Dad. Our <a href=\"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/archives\/2010\/01\/dads_and_my_rea-3.html\">June challenge<\/a> book.<\/p>\n<p><u>GirlReaction<\/u>: I lovelovelove this book a completely crazypants amount. I read it shortly after I had moved to Chicago and there were so many great details from my new city in it, places I had been, places I needed to then seek out.  For me, it&#8217;s incredibly romantic; but some of it may be related to being single for a very very long time&#8211;this idea of him being there, he&#8217;s off in another time, visiting a different you, but he exists, he is there, you just have to wait&#8230;  It&#8217;s probably a selfish veneer but feels like there&#8217;s something very (sadly) (poignantly) romantic about that lonely yearning life.<\/p>\n<p>Also I thought the (admittedly few) times you get to hear about Claire&#8217;s art were just FANTASTIC.  I could picture her works so vividly.  Why can&#8217;t someone make me wings?  WHY!?!  So amazing.<\/p>\n<p>So yeah, I went completely ga-ga for this book and was sending it out as gifts to everyone I knew.   Bought it for my parents the Christmas after I read it (maybe 2003?) and waited and waited for them to read it.  Eventually Dad saw the movie. While most of my friends who had seen the book didn&#8217;t love the movie (Jenni said it was like watching the Cliff Notes), he said he liked it (well enough). Really liked the chemistry between McAdams and Bana&#8211;although he hasn&#8217;t had any particular urge to see it again.<\/p>\n<p>I find it just as awesome to read the third, fourth&#8230;and 18th times around. I really still love it 100%.<\/p>\n<p><u>DadReaction<\/u>:  Yeah.  He did NOT like it.  Thought it was an OK book about a relationship, liked some of the scenes, the monopoly game, little things like that. But just thought it was so weird overall.  What a weird life for this woman and got to the point where he needed the story to straighten out (2\/3 way through).  Felt he didn&#8217;t need to read about Henry being 105 and Claire being 2 months old&#8230;said that every time he turned to the next chapter and read that parenthesis, he just wanted to throw the book across the room!!<br \/>\nHe also felt like what if the 15 year old horny teenager Henry shows up when she&#8217;s 16. Why didn&#8217;t that ever happen?  [Of course that can&#8217;t happen! When he&#8217;s 15 he doesn&#8217;t know she exists yet&#8230;] He couldn&#8217;t finish it.  Too frustrated by the time \/ couldn&#8217;t go with the story anymore.  Also didn&#8217;t like the drawn out stuff around her mom&#8217;s death.<\/p>\n<p><u>SO&#8230;after Dad&#8217;s reaction to the book, I decided to try the movie<\/u>. I couldn&#8217;t make it past the first 15 minutes!!<\/p>\n<p>A) The movie makes it HIS story, which really takes away the whole point. Yes, in some ways, he is the more interesting or unusual character, but that&#8217;s part of the point, it&#8217;s not about him! it&#8217;s about being his wife, being the one that&#8217;s NOT that.<\/p>\n<p>B) The movie makes the accident HIS FAULT!! Noooooooo.  That&#8217;s just completely wrong.  The accident is how he figures out his ability and it&#8217;s what saves him but it was NOT the cause.  SOOOOO WRONG.  And it&#8217;s SO irritating when stupid people connected with making movies out of good books make a BAD decision about something like that.  How could they possibly think that was something that either 1) needed changing or 2) was a good idea to change?  Increasing dramatic tension? Please. This story already has plenty of that.  DISAPPROVE.<\/p>\n<p>C) The casting of Gomez is just WRONG. I&#8217;m all for Ron Livingston in other roles but SO NOT HERE.<\/p>\n<p>Verdict: I still love this book SO MUCH.  Dad did NOT.  He likes the movie OK.  I could not even get through it.  Disagreement reigns! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Re-read for me; new to Dad. Our June challenge book. GirlReaction: I lovelovelove this book a completely crazypants amount. I read it shortly after I had moved to Chicago and there were so many great details from my new city &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/archives\/2010\/09\/fiction_the_tim.html\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,49,22,27,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1421","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books","category-challenge_10","category-dadreaction","category-readin","category-watchin"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1421"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1421\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2174,"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1421\/revisions\/2174"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/crankymonkeybutt.com\/snip\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}