Big Screen: In the Valley of Elah

Intense and sad, and yet a very quiet movie. Things happening beneath the surface for many of these characters. A couple things about the mystery that I felt weren’t explained quite right / didn’t sit quite right. But makes its point quite well: the war isn’t just happening “over there.” The soldiers bring it home with them.

And if you were paying attention at the beginning, the message at the end is very clear: We are a country in distress. No doubt about it.

Really great performances by Tommy Lee Jones, Charlize Theron, Susan Sarandon. And a couple of the “unknowns” playing the soldiers really did well in their parts. Very impressive filmmaking.

Memoir: “A Three Dog Life” by Abigail Thomas

This would be a tear-jerker on a good day so maybe not the best choice when you’re super tired and feeling lonely anyway.

Author’s husband suffered traumatic brain injury; basically becomes a different person. This is her story of coming to live with that. It’s very sad in some places. But it’s also hopeful. She always chooses the route of hope. Quite touching.

Loved her writing style. Conversational, easy tone, concise yet not lacking in details (something I used to get compliments on in grad school — although you don’t see much evidence of it, here do you?!?! — so I tend to like that in others as well).