Fiction: Love Walked In, by Marisa de los Santos

At first it appears to be telling two different stories: Cornelia, 30-something, single, waiting for romance; and Clare, 11 and in danger of abandonment… Eventually of course, they coincide and it becomes not just a story of Cornelia looking for love and Clare trying to survive her mother, but a story of Cornelia and Clare coming together and how we connect and what makes a family and how does love come and when do you stay and fight and when do you have to walk away…

I really enjoyed this, more than I expected. But it was hard to think of Clare as 11 — she felt more like a 15 year old at least 90% of the time. I’m not often bothered by the “is this person older than they’re supposed to be feel in novels” (or not as much as my friend GirlDetective who I kept thinking of whenever I thought that here [note to GD, I really did!!]), but in this case it kept nagging at me.

And you know, Cornelia can be a bit twee at times. Apparently Sarah Jessica Parker will play her in the movie. Unlike many books, this one is concise enough, I don’t see there being the need to cut much of the plot.

Big Screen: The Kingdom

I liked this movie, but I thought Peter Berg left the ending a little too ambiguous. I THINK I know what you’re supposed to think, but in leaving it ambiguous I think he left room for people with a radically different viewpoint than mine to say “yup, this [other thing] is what you’re supposed to think.” If the message is what I thought it was, it shouldn’t have been left ambiguous. I don’t want people to be able to prevaricate about that!

And I didn’t think it made that much sense to have Jason Bateman’s character so obsessed with what the whispering was. It was like using him as the plot to find out something the audience supposedly would want to know…except I didn’t think anyone in the audience was actually wondering that. It was a plot mechanism to reveal a similar attitude on both sides, but I think it could have been accomplished differently.

Jamie Foxx’s macho attitude is definitely one of his strengths as an actor so he really excels in parts that let him bring it on. Jason Bateman is great, although totally annoying in some scenes. I really dug the #2 Saudi policeman (the one who gets beaten early on).

I liked a lot of it, despite my aforementioned criticisms. But as the boy working the concession stand told me on my way in “It’s a good movie, but it’s scary. It can really make you paranoid about some stuff.”

Big Screen: Eastern Promises

Not for the faint of heart. The infamous naked bathroom fight scene was more notable (to me) for its extreme bloodiness (I swear that one cut goes all the way down his spine) than a few random sightings of Viggo nekkid. There’s a throatcutting scene earlier that’s more like a “trying really hard to chisel off someone’s head with a not very sharp knife” scene.

Viggo is so solidly into character here, it’s hard to reconcile in your mind that this is the same boy who played Aragorn. Not a bad flick, a number of interesting items, but I didn’t find myself very engaged with it. More like a spectator from a distance than I usually feel in the theater. And a lot of people in this movie make really bad decisions. You wanted to take them into the hallway and try and shake some sense into them.

Cable: X-Men III

Oh it’s the kids are now “adults” part of the series. Never a very interesting plot move. But hey, I’m completely down with Rogue’s decision. I mean, if you’re a romantic, how could you not be?

Cable: Aeon Flux.

OK I didn’t think it was good, but I’m not sure why this was quite as panned as it was. I mean, yeah, the woman with the hands for feet was just grotesque… but I really didn’t think the rest of it was THAT bad. Charlize Theron was convincing and the dude that played her man-from-the-past was kinda hot in a Dominic West-hot way.

I’ve certainly seen worse movies than this. And if you got rid of a couple of really annoying things, I think it could have been decent.

Old Favorites Revisited…Lonely Boy Fall 05

Sometimes I get in a bad habit of only listening to the new tunes fighting for space on the iPod and conveniently forget that there are loads of playlists full of old stuff that I love and if I’m not going to listen to it then maybe it wouldn’t need to be there taking up its own space… So this morning I started going through old mixes. When I listen to this now, it seems a bit more straight-out rock than I remember… I haven’t listened to some of these songs probably since shortly after I first made this mix… Glad to find I still dig it.

Lonely Boy Fall 05

  • “Homesick” Kings of Convenience
  • “You’re So True” Joseph Arthur
  • “Sending a Note” Graham Colton Band
  • “The Drifter” David Poe
  • “Cold Day in the Sun” Foo Fighters
  • “Strangerman” Ringside (lots of love for this song)
  • “How to Dream” Sam Phillips
  • “Eve, the Apple of My Eye” Bell X1 (…SOUNDS LIKE…Annie Lennox!)
  • “All for You” Sister Hazel
  • “Faded Beauty Queens” The Thrills
  • “Home to Me” Josh Kelley
  • “Across 110th Street” Bobby Womack & Peace (long-time fave)
  • “New York, New York” Ryan Adams
  • “Be Be Your Love” Rachael Yamagata
  • “New York” Richard Ashcroft
  • “Only Love Can Break Your Heart” Everlast (cover)
  • “Real Love / It’s Only Life” Mike Doughty (cover)
  • “Life on a Chain” Pete Yorn
  • “Let It Be” Beatles (can’t go wrong…)

Try it. You might like it.

To crib from Al Franken, “Lies and the Lying Liars Who Tell Them”

Wow. I’m flabbergasted. I just found out someone has been telling me a lie. A fairly big lie that has involved numerous “edits” to numerous conversations. FOR MONTHS. And the reason for telling the lie…was to not “alienate” me.

Here’s a little piece of advice: being lied to is alienating all on its own.

Yes, I know, I have kinda a “thing” about being lied to. My mom has remarked on that it bothers me a lot more than it bothers you know say your average normal person when they get lied to. Bygones. This is me. This is how I feel. I can’t be YOU on MY web site, can I?

Faux-Amies*

It is always amusing in French class to watch the “I know too much to look up these words” people get tripped up by what we call *”false cognates” en anglais. I’m hoping for such tonight as one of our vocab words is décevant. Deceiving? No. Disappointing.

I, as you must have known, am an anal-looker-upper. Even when I know that I already know the word in question. I’m always checking to make sure there isn’t also an idiomatic definition I don’t know about. I waste a lot of time that way. But time…well, that’s in surfeit over here.